For a person like me who is constantly conscious of being nice to every single person that I come across, with a tremendous pressure and fear of missing out, I have had too many heartaches in the past. And the only reason is that    I am unable to use this two letter word "NO"

I have learned my lesson the hard way and so today I have chosen to share this with all of you out there. Please remember to take care of yourself. You cannot please everyone out there and in fact there is no need to please them either. Someone who loves you is going to be with you and someone who doesn't want to be with you will never change their mind. Stop wasting your energy on thinking too hard on what might be other's opinion on you. Learn to speak no. Understand when someone is pushing your limits.